Understanding Women Online Secret Friends Guide
Understanding Women And Finding Solutions
By Joachim Strauss
Understanding women is one of the problems facing some
men today. Once it is accepted not all women are the
same, then more men may be able to understand women.
Different women have different needs in a man.
Some women want a soul mate, a shoulder to lean on
when the going gets tough. Other women want a sex slave
who can perform every time. Yet, other women just love
a new romance with a tall dark stranger.
Exchanging Ideas On A First Date
When you meet a new date, you may not know the type
of woman you are about to meet. By exchanging ideas
and asking questions, you will soon know what you are
seeking in each other and then you can review your options.
She may want to start a new relationship, or she may
have a crush on you.
If you find out that you are pleased with your date,
then you may not have any problem understanding women.
Lacking Social Skills To Meet Women
It is a strange thing to say, but there are many otherwise
intelligent men who have an inability to understand
women at all. It isn’t just that men and women have
different communication styles.
For guys like this, it is like women come from another
planet. These men have trouble getting dates, don’t
tend to keep close relationships with female friends,
and even get into difficulty with female coworkers in
the workplace. Understanding women isn’t just a matter
of learning to meet singles and mingle effectively –
for some guys, a whole set of social skills is lacking.
Broad Questions About Understanding WOmen
I had a friend who definitely fit into this category
admirably. He had some female friends, but would always
be embarrassingly awkward around them. He always asked
me questions about understanding women – broad questions
that I couldn’t answer easily.
He’d ask what women wanted, how to get them to like
you, and things like that. It was kind of embarrassing
for both of us now that I think about it. It was like
his problems understanding women were so deep that he
needed someone to explain how to have a conversation.
Go Out And Meet Singles
He ended up getting one of those books on how to meet
attractive women and, for about half a year, he treated
it like it was his Bible. He would always go out to
meet singles in bars, and try to get as many phone numbers
as he could.
The first few times he struck out horribly, but soon
he was getting up to the task. He was having an easier
time understanding women, and they were having an easier
time relating to him.
Keep Women Interested For More Than A Month
The only problem was that he still couldn’t deal with
women as friends. He would get to a certain point in
the relationship and no further. He could understand
how to seduce women and make them like him, but he could
not keep their interest for more than a month.
By this point, he was much less afraid of women than
he used to be, so I sat him down and decided to have
a little chat. I told him what he needed to hear – that
there was no big secret to understanding women.
Staying In Touch With Female Friends
Each woman is different, and like men, women have be
treated as individuals. Of course this is an obvious
truth to me, but for him it was sort of a revelation.
Once he heard it, his whole mode of interacting
changed.
He was no longer the slimy guy who I used to know.
Suddenly, he was a down to earth decent sort of guy
who was staying in touch with his female friends and
meeting some great girls. I don’t know what the breakthrough
was, but I’m glad that he now understands
women.
Finding Solutions And Being Ready For Answers
If you have a problem understanding women, you may
need to look for solutions. One way to find out is to
ask why? If the woman is honest to you, she will tell
you. You may need to change your attitude to women and
treat them individually and not as a whole group of
people. Just like my friend found out, all women are
not the same.
Some women want love and affection, others want a tall
dark stranger, while others just want someone who can
hold an intellectual conversation. Someone who will
listen and help them find solutions to challenges in
life. Some women want more of everything you can offer.
You may find it easier understanding women, if you
are ready to meet them as another human being, on the
same level. Once you develop an understanding, you may
progress to a more stable relationship.
About the Author:
Joachim Strauss is an author of articles on relationships, dating, romance and travel including
Family Relationships,
Best Places To Meet Women,
Adult Dating Services,
Online Dating Services,
Attracting Women,
Romantic Places,
Happy Couple,
Romantic Bed And Breakfast,
Summer Holidays.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.
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