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Sex Relationships Tips Rekindle The Flame
By Janine Jensenoris
"One of the primary ways a man feels close to
his partner is by being sexually close to her; it’s
how he arrives at intimacy," explains Laura Berman,
Ph.D., director of the Berman Center in Chicago. She
says that men who lack adequate sex relationships with
their partners have a hard time finding inspiration
to be romantic, which in turn leads the woman to feel
undesired and creates a cycle of skipping relationships
sex.
It’s important that partners communicate with one another
to find a number and a style that works, she says. If
this sounds like a challenge, never fear, as there are
a number of tips from leading sex therapists and marriage
counselors to get you and your loved one back on track.
Daily Contact Helps To Light The Fire
One important way to rekindle sex relationships is
to initiate daily contact. "Many couples have two
modes of affection: nothing or intercourse, and when
that’s the case, ’nothing’ usually wins out," explains
marriage counseling expert Barry McCarthy Ph.D. The
problem is that, if a kiss or back massage always leads
to sex, spouses may avoid contact if they’re "not
in the mood."
They may feel anxious or encounter performance anxiety
when they’re touched, which inhibits sexual pleasure.
Instead, holding hands, hugging for no reason and initiating
other types of contact will lead to a stronger connection,
both in and out of the bedroom. McCarthy adds, "Your
sex will become much more natural, because one kind
of touch flows into another."
Making A Date For Sex
One of the biggest challenges in a marriage is making
time for sex relationships, particularly when work and
child rearing responsibilities begin to take precedence.
"Make a date for sex. Don’t let it be an afterthought,"
encourages Michael Castleman, love advice author of
Great Sex: A Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of
Total-Body Sex.
"Do whatever you like to do beforehand, go to
a movie or dinner, take a walk, have a glass of wine
by candlelight, whatever the couple likes to do as a
couple. But set aside that time." He recommends
getting away from the humdrum of everyday life, like
planning an overnight trip to a bed-and-breakfast or
a vacation to rekindle romance, change up the scenery
and excite passions.
Sex At Least Once A Week
Aging comes with a price. For men, it may be erectile
dysfunction and for women it may be vaginal dryness.
There are a number of products on the market to invigorate
sex relationships, despite these obstacles. As the saying
goes, "If you don’t use it, you lose it" --
which is another reason why sex at least once a week
is important physically, not just mentally.
Whether it’s KY lubrication or Viagra, accounting for
physical changes is important to relationships sex satisfaction.
Additionally, the mental component must be there, since
drugs do little to increase sexual desire. For women,
they may need to hear they’re beautiful, have physical
contact throughout the day or be surprised by an impromptu
trip to a bed-and-breakfast to light their fires.
For men, he may need a sensual massage, sexy new outfits
that play into his fantasies or a little extra foreplay
to arouse passion. No matter what strategies are tried,
communication is the key to a long and satisfying marriage.
About the Author: Janine
Jensenoris is a popular author of dating articles including
Adult
Personals, Blind
Dating, Chat
Websites, Real
Friends, Adult
Party Favors, Conversation
Starters, Abusive
Relationships, Difficult
People, Anger
Management, Interracial
Relationships.
Keep a lookout for more articles coming soon.
More Relationship Facts....
Relationship tuneups need to happen in every single
relationship. It does not matter if the relationship
is brand new or if it is one that has endured twenty-five
years of togetherness. The fact remains that people
grow and change.
Relationships have to grow and change with them. Taking
stock of your relationship and learning how to make
it exciting again can help bring two people closer together.
If you are in a situation where the romance has died
down, why not rev up your love life with your partner?
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