Romance Relationships Online Dating
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Romance Relationships And Being Together Forever
By Joachim Strauss
Romance relationships are quite common but some are
more rare than others. In the beginning of every relationship,
it is all smelling roses. Then, over a period of time,
serious compatibility issues may arise.
These issues may include personality clashes, excessive
drinking, violence, abuse, inability to adapt to changes
in life and family pressures. For example, a member
of a couple is of one religion and the other is of a
different religion, it can bring relationships with
family members to a crisis point.
I know of one girl who was Jewish and her relationship
was with a Catholic. They wanted to marry, and could
not get the family to agree to marry in a single religious
facility. In order to marry in a religious facility,
they had to convert to that religion. They decided to
not marry in any religious facility, and the couple
were shunned by both families.
But they always said, we have each other. But unfortunately,
the marriage did not last long. I know of another couple
who were of the same religion, but had different ethnic
background, and their marriage did not last long due
to ongoing conflict with family relationships.
There are always challenges to romance relationships.
True Love Lasts For All Eternity
They say that true love last for all eternity? You
know, the kind you see in plays like, "Romeo and
Juliet." These two star–crossed lovers fell
passionately for one another, and there was nothing
anyone could do about it. Of course they were driven
to commit suicide shortly after.
This brings me to my point. Although the concept of
romance relationships sounds ideal and should be eternal,
it’s not. If you’re going to ever use Romeo and Juliet
as an example, forget it! They were only together a
matter of days.
If they had stayed alive and spent a few years together,
it wouldn’t be the same. It can’t be. That would go
against the cycle of every other couple/relationship
on this planet. Romance tends to fade, or even die.
We All Have To Work On Our Relationships
It’s true that we all have to work on our relationships
and marriages. They will not simply remedy themselves.
What I always like to tell the younger folks is that
romance relationships do not stay perfect.
A New Romance Is Like Magic
The beginning can seem phenomenal. Everything is new
for both of you and you’re stoked to learn more and
more about each other. Unfortunately you do, and suddenly
there’s no mystery. Out of nowhere you’re spending all
of your time together and things start to get routine.
Before you know it, you’re living together or married
and have a child on the way. Say bye–bye to romance
relationships and hello to the mundane. Okay, hold on
a moment! I’m not trying to diss marriage or long–term
relationships.
After all, this is what I have. I’m only pointing out
that the "honeymoon stage" will fade. This
is when you really need to start making time for one
another and trying your best to spice things up. Put
some effort into it.
Get Advice Online Or From Books
You can even acquire advice on romance relationships
via books or the web. Maybe you will spot something
new that sounds ideal for you and your significant other.
New can often be good. Real relationships need real
work.
When it comes to romance relationships, I admit that
I’m not the king. However, I am one that will work hard
to better what I have. You want to know why? Because
it’s worth it.
You may have fallen in love with your partner long
ago, and since then the love/passion has faded, but
now you can choose to love them forever, or not. It
certainly takes effort from both parties, but is totally
possible.
Celebrate Wedding Anniversary
I have seen couples celebrate silver and golden wedding
anniversaries and they appear as much in love as they
may have been before they were married. They are so
happy to see the results of the union at family reunions
including the sons, daughters, grandchildren and all
the in–laws.
Silver and golden wedding anniversaries are rare,
and the seven year itch seems to prevail in a lot of
relationships. I have seen relationships dissolve at
the altar, where the groom disappeared with the maiden
of honor and were never seen together again.
I have noticed a lot of the romance relationships do
not last long if the couple are incompatible. In another
case, the bride disappeared in the morning after the
wedding, taking all the wedding jewelry. The police
found her sleeping in her car. The groom did not know,
the bride had a criminal record.
As you can see, there may be reasons why some romance
relationships do not last the distance.
About the Author: Joachim
Strauss is a popular author of dating articles including
Online
Dating Services, Discrete
Relationships, Adult
Dating Services, Adult
Relationships, Attracting
Women.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this
author on this website in the near future.
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