Real Friends Online Dating Secret Friends Guide
Real Friends Always Stay In Touch
By Janine Jensenoris
Real friends are friends who stay in touch and can
talk about anything without risk of offending. You know
how each one is thinking, so you know everything is
said with an absence of malice.
Your real friend can be your soul mate. If you have
a problem or your have a solution, you want to tell
someone you can trust and will not betray your confidence.
Rather than clamp up and keep concerns you have about
anything, you contact your real friends and discuss
your concerns.
Real friends can be friends you meet at work, at social
events or friends you have known for years. A real friend
can be your partner, your lover. You may even have a
platonic relationship, where things do not get complicated
with emotions, tensions and sexual relations.
Real Friends Can Be Childhood Friends
Real friends are quite often of the same sex. Sometimes,
real friends originated from childhood.
One of the painful things you learn as you grow out
of childhood into adulthood is that not everyone you
meet and spend time with will be real friends. There
are some who may start out as your friend, but in the
end they will do something to break your heart.
It happens to everyone, but you just have to pick yourself
up, review your options and move on. The worst thing
you can do is to shut everyone out when you get hurt,
but it is something that is tempting. If you don’t
let anyone close, no one can hurt you.
Some people meet real friends in school and they remain
friends throughout their life. This isn’t always the
case though, as many people don’t meet any real friends
until they have left school and moved on.
Friendships Fade
Sometimes people lose touch no matter how well meaning
they are, and friendships to fade. You think you will
be friends forever, but you should know that this isn’t
always the case.
I had a lot of friends that I thought I would know
until the day I died, but I quite honestly don’t know
where half of them are today.
Some Friendships Cool Off
That doesn’t mean you aren’t real friends,
it just means that you both have grown outside the friendship
into different people. You may not be able to relate
to each other as well as you once did, and things start
to cool off.
This has happened to me many times, and I have learned
that it is a fact of life. Some may say that real friends
never lose touch, but that isn’t really true.
Friends Slowly Drift Apart
Sometimes the best of friends just slowly drift apart
until one day they realize they haven’t spoken in months
and they just don’t know why.
Real friends come and go, but know that there is an
endless supply out there. You just have to find them.
It’s not that hard, but you do have to be open to meeting
new people in order to make new friends.
Real Friends Can Be Found Anywhere
There are always people out there who have the same
beliefs as you do, or have a lot in common with you.
Not everyone you meet will suit you, but you can find
real friends in almost any place you wish.
Friends aren’t always for life, but they do enrich
life. Get out there and meet people. You’ll be glad
you did.
Real Friends Are Soul Mates
Real friends can be your soul mate. Someone you can
lean on. If you have a problem, or have a solution,
then you call your real friend. You know you can say
what you want and your friend will understand without
being offended.
Your real friends can be your friends from childhood,
your lover, your partner, your workmate, a platonic
relationship without any complications.
Staying In Touch For Your Peace Of Mind
Depending on your circumstances, you may meet every
day, once a week, once a month, every few months.
There are different ways to stay in touch with your
real friends. You can go online and chat on a website,
on ICQ, webcam or via email. Or you can talk on the
phone, send each other SMS, meet face to face.
Real friends always stay in touch. Think about each
other. Always.
About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is an author of articles on friends, flirting, dating, social skills and relationships articles including
First Date Conversation Starters,
Social Skills Lessons,
Chat Site,
Adult Party Favors,
Conversation Starters,
Difficult People,
Marriage Crisis,
Anger Management,
Mother Daughter Relationships,
Interracial Relationships.
Keep a lookout for more articles coming soon.
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