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Mind Control And Dominant Relationships
By Jane Healy
Mind control is evident when a couple are in a relationship
and one is always the dominant partner, while the other
is submissive. This relationship may involve physical
or psychological violence.
There may be times when there is no violence but one
member of the couple does not want to lose the partner
and will stay in the relationship despite the presence
of dominant mind control. There is help available from
professional relationship counselors and family members
who can help with the rescue from this desperate situation.
One need never accede to this situation. If the situation
can be nipped in the bud, before a relationship gets
more complex, including the involvement of children
in a family relationship, then it may be easier to escape
from such a torturous relationship.
Keeping the family together, does not need to include
losing control of your own thoughts and wishes.
Mind Control Is Never Pretty
Wouldn’t it be great to have some sort of mind control
over someone else? It sounds like something out of a
science fiction movie, but there are ways to do it.
It’s never pretty, and it is usually something that
is involved in a violent relationship.
Mind control is something that happens more often than
you think it does. You may not totally be able to tell
someone what to do, but you might be surprised to know
that it’s not as hard as you might think, and if you
don’t have a strong sense of self, you may be a victim
of it.
Mind control is the reason why so many women stay in
abusive relationships. If the woman is weak, she can
easily fall under the spell of a man who wants to control
her.
Mind Control And Relationships
He can’t control her thoughts like you might think
when thinking of mind control, but he can get pretty
darn close. If you hear something enough you start to
believe it. Even if you consciously know it’s wrong,
your brain begins to undermine you, and you start to
do exactly as you are told.
Some think they have found the man of their dreams,
and that man knows it. He will do everything he can
to keep her with him, even though it’s most about control
than it is love. They practice mind control by telling
her where she can go, who she can talk to, and what
she will be doing.
Threats And Fear Of Loss
Her thoughts don’t really matter, and after awhile,
she gets worn down. It might be due to threat of violence,
or perhaps a fear of losing him. He uses mind control
to make her think that no one else will want her, and
if she doesn’t do as he says, she will be left alone
for the rest of her life.
If you are under the spell of mind control, you need
help to get out. He’s not really controlling your mind,
or rather I should say he wouldn’t be able to do it
unless you have given him the power to do so.
Seek Help And You Will Be Free
You have to get help, and learn how to build up your
strengths so that any attempts at mind control fail
miserably. It’s a hard situation to get out of, but
if you reach out to those who really love you, they
will be able to help you, and you will be free.
Do it for yourself. No matter what he says (or in some
cases, what she says) you are worthy of a happy life.
Comes A Time
There will come a time when you realise that he is
not worth all the pain he is giving you and it is about
time he changed his ways. Rather than giving in to his
threats, maybe you can fight back and regain some control.
He may realise that he does not have total control
of your mind and he may start accommodating your wishes.
If he does not, then it may be the end of your relationship.
But then this may be the best solution, if he does not
wish to accommodate your wishes.
No Limits
Once one person dominates a relationship, there is
no limit to what they can do. There may need to be a
referral to a professional relationships counseling
service to prevent the relationship deteriorating even
further. The counseling service may help in reconciliation
and bring back the relationship to an even keel. If
there are irreconcilable differences, then the relationship
may be dissolved in a peaceful way.
A relationship is between two people and not one dominating
the other with mind control.
About the Author:
Jane Healy is an author of relationships and dating
articles including Personality
Profile Test, Teen
Relationship Advice.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this
author on this website in the near future.
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