Intimacy Online Dating Secret Friends Guide
Intimacy With Passion
By Joachim Strauss
Intimacy is the passion and the closeness you feel
for each other in a loving relationship. It is knowing
how to finish her sentences. It is laying it all out
in the open and no secrets. It is crying together, feeling
the emotion of the moment, even if you do not know why
she is crying, you cry with her.
Intimacy is more than about sex, it includes times
shared together with lots of eye contact, conversation
and touching. As most conversations are with the eyes
and your actions, rather than the words spoken. Words
can be explained by her intimate actions. It is not
what she says, it is how she says it.
There is a tendency for intimacy to be reduced over
a long term relationship. The first sign, is reduced
eye contact. Watching her eyes is very intimate and
occurs more often in the beginning of a
relationship.
Maintaining A Closeness In Long Term Relationships
In more established and long-term relationships, it
is more common to be looking in the general vicinity
of her eyes, but not directly in to her eyes. This usually
occurs, to avoid a tense situation and not give in to
an intimate moment.
You can make an effort to maintain the closeness of
your relationship and have more intimate moments. Making
this effort, helps to improve your relationship, even
though you may have been together for years and are
even married.
There are keys to increasing the intimacy in your relationship.
These include connective small talk, non-sexual physical
contact and appreciation of your mate.
Small Talk Help To Reduce Misunderstandings
You do not need long conversations in order to stay
connected with each other. You can have small talk,
in order to understand each other better and to show
you care. Hearing her voice, may be all that you need,
to know that all is well.
The more you talk about the little things, like what
happened at work or what you bought at the store, the
more small talk helps to keep the bridges in your relationship
connected all the way. Small talk helps to reduce the
chance of confusion and lessen the amount of arguments.
Revealing More Of Her Inner Thoughts
Now, you may wonder, what will you talk about, when
you know everything there is to know about each other.
You may only know what she tells you, but small talk
may reveal more about her inner thoughts and helping
you to read her mind. For example, she may want to work
in the garden, and she starts talking about the lousy
weather.
You may not know she wants to work in the garden today,
talking about the weather, will help you discover that
she wants to do some gardening. This is the time when
you increase your understanding of each other.
Next time she talks bout the weather, you may wonder
if she wants to work in the garden. Talking about the
small things in life helps to improve the bond between
the two of you and cement the relationship further.
If you see little challenges along the course of life,
you can review those challenges and offer solutions.
Another option, is physical contact.
More Intimate Moments With Hugging And Gentle Touches
Hugging and gentle touches are two forms of non-sexual
physical contact and helps to improve the intimacy in
your relationship. You should hold hands and give her
a hug more often and she will understand you are with
her. Another option is to rub her back or
shoulders.
Every time you are talking to her, always look at her
eyes. Even if you are not talking to her, always look
at her eyes. Reading her eyes, will tell you everything
you need to know. Making an effort to create more moments
of intimacy helps to improve the quality of your
relationship.
Show Your Appreciation
There may be times in your relationship, when the bond
is severely tested. But there are times when you feel
like you are on top of the world and nothing can go
wrong. It is at these moments and even when things go
wrong, when you should show your appreciation.
Rather than dwelling on the negatives, you should accentuate
the positives and all these good things will help overcome
all the challenges life has to offer. Think of at least
three things you appreciate about her on a daily basis.
Knowing these positives in your relationship will help
to strengthen your bonds and increase your affection
and intimacy.
About the Author:
Joachim Strauss is an author of articles on relationships, dating, romance and travel including
Family Relationships,
Best Places To Meet Women,
Adult Dating Services,
Online Dating Services,
Attracting Women,
Romantic Places,
Happy Couple,
Romantic Bed And Breakfast,
Summer Holidays.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.
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