How to Impress a Girl Dating Online
Secret Friends Guide
How To Impress A Girl And Win Her To Your Charm
By Joachim Strauss
How to impress a girl is the eternal question. Do you
do everything to please her and say yes to everything
she wants, or do you make it a little more difficult
so that she can find it a challenge to win you over.
If you can get somewhere between the two, then you
will be able to impress her and find you as a challenge.
You may have to think of some steps you can take and
what to say while you are talking to her. Don’t
talk about things that only interest you. You might
go to the same school, or work in similar fields or
like the same music.
There are always areas where you may have similar thoughts.
There are really only six degrees of separation between
you and a total stranger you meet on the street.
While you are on a date, if you are passive and bland,
then she might think you are dull. She might try to
end the date as quickly as possible and go look somewhere
else for a good time.
But, if you are willing to exchange ideas and look
for areas where you may be compatible, then you will
know how to impress a girl.
You can always do some reading to find out more on
how to impress a girl.
There are many books on how to impress a girl. But
how, really, do you get her attention, keep her attention,
and make her come back for more of the wonderful you?
Do you follow the special advice on how to impress
a girl who is hot or who is rich? Do you go with the
psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations
that all girls want Brad Pitt, all girls are on diets,
and all girls love to shop?
If you do try to abide by the rules of any of the above,
aren’t you eliminating a number of options to meet and
maybe get involved with a girl who loves cars and can
drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three
weeks?
Won’t you be leaving out the girls who have no
money but are potential money–makers as they
are working two jobs and taking classes at night to
become a veterinarian or a geologist?
Follow the advice
You get the idea. Following some (I said “some”) advice
on how to impress a girl might in fact have the opposite
effect: you may gross her out (if she’s not like the
girls targeted in the how–to–impress–a–girl manual)
when you were trying to intrigue her, you may make her
laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may
make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or
laugh.
Here are some hot Tips on How to Impress a Girl
1. Be real. And realistic.
You say one lie (that you are bold–faced aware you are
saying), and you have just changed the game.
You now have to keep track of the lie, never forget
it, and know that that lie is what part of your potential
relationship is now based on. For she will believe you.
And one day, if you are both lucky enough to get involved,
she will find out. And she will dump your ass. Or do
a lot of haranguing and how–could–yous.
In the same respect as you will be yourself–nervous
if you are nervous (some girls find that adorable);
clumsy if you are clumsy (some girls find this endearing)–you
will also remember that the girl you seek to impress
might not be the one for you, no matter how close a
next–door neighbor she is or how many years you
all went to the same football games and movies.
2. Do not bother “bartering above your station”
If she is not the type to date, do not ask her out.
But if she is your type, be confident and self–reliant.
Don’t think yourself unworthy of every woman who walks
into study hall, either.
We do not know how to handle either of you. We don’t
know what to do with a whimpering one–other than play
armchair psychologist–and we don’t know how to act around
an egotist–other than to giggle nervously, as in danger
to our self–preservation instincts, which are telling
us to run.
3. Be interesting and interested.
Have interests other than guns. Talk about something
besides your Nazi swastika collection.
In fact, if you are a skinhead or neo–Nazi, you may
have other things on your mind besides how to impress
a girl. When you ask her questions, for God’s sake–or
yours–listen to the answer. Don’t look at her boobs.
Don’t keep saying uh–huh. Uh–huh. Uh–huh. Interact.
After you answer her question, you propagate the conversation
by asking her a question.
4. Be healthy.
The studies show that we are attracted to the body
and face that represents the optimum reproductive abilities
and features.
That is, white teeth, symmetrical shapes, etc., are
not consciously sought after but certainly part of the
search. Brush, bathe, shave, etc.. And smell good. Whatever
that means.
5. Be fair.
Do not put her on some Madonna (or Madonna/whore combo)
pedestal. She is not Angelina Jolie. She is not your
mother. She won’t make love to you forty times a week.
She won’t cook for you or jump up from her studies
to do the dishes if you demand it, expect it, or insist
that Mommy always did it for you.
6. Don’t talk about your mum
If you are just meeting her, don’t tell her how much
you adore your mother or how many nights a week Mom
comes along on dates with you. In fact, if you’re an
actual Mommy’s Boy, don’t even bother reading this.
7. And be positive
You don’t have to fake joy and sunshine and lollipops
if your favorite pet just died, but try to see something
good in every person you meet, not just the one that
your biology cannot ignore.
Try to see, especially, some good in yourself. Smiling
and jokes are often great bonding mechanisms. So is
“Hello.”
These are the tips you can use to impress a girl. All
you have to is converse, listen and respond to her questions.
To continue the conversation, you can come up with a
follow up question. This way you will learn a lot about
each other and see where there a compatibilities.
The more compatible you are to each other, the more
chance you will have of making a good impression on
each other.
Once you know how to impress a girl, then the world
is your oyster.
About the Author: Joachim
Strauss is a popular author of dating articles including
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Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this
author on this website in the near future.
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