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Happy Valentine Poetic Love Letter
By John Rafter
"You are always new. The last of your kisses was
ever the sweetest; the last smile the brightest; the
last movement the gracefullest. When you pass’d my window
home yesterday, I was fill’d with as much admiration
as if I had then seen you for the first time,"
wrote John Keats to Fanny Browne.
"You uttered a half complaint once that I only
lov’d your beauty. Have I nothing else then to love
in you but that? Do not I see a heart naturally furnish’d
with wings imprison itself with me?" Nothing says
"Happy Valentine" like a poetic love letter
brimming with romantic Valentines sentiments.
To get started on your heartfelt Valentine love letter,
first contemplate this quote by Jean-Jacques Rousseau:
"To write a good love letter, you ought to begin
without knowing what you mean to say and to finish without
knowing what you have written."
A Room To Get Your Creative Juices Flowing
To begin, it’s important that you find a place where
you can get the creative juices flowing; a favorite
room near a window, outside in a beautiful park (if
you’re blessed with warm weather), in an art gallery
or at a cozy cafe. Many people will light a candle with
jasmine or rose scents to relax and free-flow their
thoughts.
Classical music has been known to set the heart aflame
as well. If you’re feeling particularly stumped, then
you can go to www.links2love.com/love_letters.htm
for inspiration, where you can read romantic Valentines
and love letters penned by the classics, such as Napoleon,
Jack London, Edgar Alan Poe, James Joyce, Beethoven
and Voltaire, to name a few.
Once You Start Writing, It Will Be Hard To Stop
If your brain feels numb, not knowing where to start,
then just jump in and start jotting things down or sip
a glass of red wine to get rid of the inhibition, or
that nagging voice that says "it’s not good enough."
Your first draft doesn’t have to be an utter masterpiece.
Once you get going, it will be hard to stop the overflow
of emotions trickling onto the page.
The caliber of love letter will ultimately depend upon
the level of the relationship you are in. For example,
if you’ve only been dating a month and you try to bust
out the sappy Valentines Day poems, then she might think
you are insincere or even corny. It is best to aim for
subtlety to allow your sweetheart to read between the
lines a little and wonder what your Happy Valentine
letter means.
Building Up To Your Expression Of Love
If you’ve been in a mutually intense relationship for
quite some time, then you will know you are free to
express your stronger emotions. In your letter, write
about the hundreds of intricacies and enjoyments that
comprise your great love. Approach your essay as you
would love making and build up to that expression of
love!
Talk about the mannerisms that melt your heart, the
actions that mean so much, what you think about when
you’re missing her and a few of your most memorable
adventures, as well as those times that told you about
her qualities as a mate. Be sure to praise the physical
and the intellectual sides you love about your partner,
whether it’s the softness of her skin, the plumpness
of her lips or the curve of her hips.
Keep The Flames Burning
The best part of a relationship is the steamy correspondence,
the exchange of ideas and the intense courtship. As
long as you can keep the flames burning past that Happy
Valentine letter, the more satisfied you both will be
in the long term. Incorporating more Valentines Day
ideas into every day life is, after all, the whole purpose
of the holiday.
As you’re writing, it is important that you just jot
down your most honest thoughts, without fear of rejection.
If you can’t express yourself freely, then your heart
is in the wrong place. As Mark Twain once wrote, "The
frankest and freest product of the human mind and heart
is a love letter; the writer gets his limitless freedom
of statement and expression from his sense that no stranger
is going to see what he is writing."
About the Author: John Rafter
is a popular author of romance and dating articles including
Love
Help, Happy
Valentines, Happy
Valentines Day, Valentines
Day Gifts, Valentines
Day Ideas, For
Valentines Day, On
Valentines Day, Valentines
Day Gifts.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this
popular author on this website in the near future.
More Valentines Day Facts....
What countries celebrate Valentines Day?
Most countries celebrate a day
similar to Valentines Day. It usually occurs on the
same day as well. It is just celebrated differently
or it is called something different. Many countries
such as Slovenia, Romania, Denmark and Norway celebrate
All Heart’s Day or Friend’s Day. In Brazil it is called
Dia dos Namorados which means Day of the Enamored. It,
unlike many other countries, is celebrated on June 12th.
Colombia celebrates Amigo secreto
(Secret Friend) on September 20th. The days are quite
the same wherever you go. There is an exchange of gifts
and a well-wishing towards friends and loved ones. America’s
holiday has greatly influenced the rest of the world
through its commercialism.
At one time Asia did not celebrate
this day but the flower industry and America’s influence
helped bring it to be a very important day for Asians.
So much so that February 14th is the day for women to
give men presents and on March 14th the men give the
women gifts.
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