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Flirting With Women And Looking For Signs And Gestures
By Jason Reed
When flirting with women, one of the best ways to tell
if you’re being successful or not is by watching the
gestures they make. Certain things they do, whether
it’s the way they sit, what they look at, what they
do with their hands, and so on, can give you indications
about what they’re really thinking.
When it comes to the flirting game, almost the only
rule is that virtually nobody says what they actually
mean. So reading body language becomes part of the game,
like a puzzle you need to put together before you can
see the whole picture.
You can learn to flirt by responding to a greater extent
to the woman’s gestures than to her actual words, though
of course you need to listen to what she’s saying as
well.
Open And Closed Gestures
The types of gestures tend to be divided into open
and closed, with the open gestures being encouraging
and positive, and the closed gestures suggesting that
she’s not interested and that you’d better get ready
to move on.
Remember that when flirting with a woman, it almost
never pays to ignore those closed gestures. You’ll
want to be able to recognize the open ones and review
your options.
Recognizing The Subtle Signs Of Encouragement
An example of open gestures would be when she leans
toward you, or perhaps touches you, or even if her pupils
dilate. The art of flirting involves recognizing these
subtle signs of encouragement. Of course, a smile is
the most encouraging thing of all.
But flirting with women also requires that you be on
the lookout for the opposite of those encouraging signs,
such as the moment when she leans back, as though to
get away from you. Crossing her arms over her chest
is another "closed" gesture, suggesting you
make her nervous or that she just doesn’t like you.
Be ready to make your exit.
Look For Subtle Clues
Flirting with women can sometimes be a guessing game,
and yet you’re not left totally in the dark. The gestures
and glances that women make can provide vital clues
to how you’re being received. Learn to flirt according
to the subtle clues they are giving you, and you will
find yourself having a lot more success.
The women will feel like you’re reading their minds,
and for some of them, this may be one more thing that
intrigues them. And it will save you from wasting your
time persisting with women who just aren’t interested.
About the Author:
Jason Reed is an author of flirting, dating, romance, relationships and gift articles including
Successful Online Dating,
Dating Tips For Men,
Shy Men,
Anniversary Wishes,
Friendship Rings,
Search For People.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.
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or the tiny twist of a smile that dances along the lips
which leads a person to think you are interested or
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are clueless. But learning how to flirt is important.
It is a rite of passage that all young men and women
must master if they want to attract the mate of their
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Even those that already have mates use flirtation to
keep the interest and feelings alive. But do you know
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works but you are probably wrong.
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