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Flirting Advice For Trustworthy Guys
By Jason Reed
The teenage flirting world can be a pretty tough place
to navigate, especially for a guy who likes a special
girl but doesn’t have the first clue about how to approach
her.
If you’re that guy, then here’s the first and most
important piece of flirting advice you’re ever going
to get: treat a girl with real respect and she is much
more likely to respond and start returning your interest.
Treat a girl like dirt, and well, it’s your funeral.
In the art of flirting, another valuable piece of advice
is to be yourself, and be sincere and continue to review
and think of new ways to get her attention. If you’re
going to put on some sort of act to impress the girl,
like being all macho or smooth, or trying to seem like
a jock, then that isn’t likely to be successful.
Building Up Trust With A Girl
Sure, it might get her interest at first but you can’t
keep up the act forever, and once the real you starts
coming out, she’ll know you were faking, and her respect
for you will vanish like a vampire at daybreak.
Trust is a very big thing for girls, and they are interested
in guys who are sincere. Flirting is not an art of deception,
but the art of sincerely showing interest in the person.
Be An Attentive Listener And Respond To Her Questions
To flirt physically is not something you should do
the first few times you approach the girl. Instead,
just have a casual conversation, with regular eye contact.
This means you listen to what she has to say.
Eye contact doesn’t mean staring, but means a few seconds
at a time, so a connection is made. Good flirting advice
suggests that you make physical contact only gradually,
things like putting an occasional hand on her arm. The
key to all of this is to let things move gradually and
naturally.
If She Is Not Interested, Then Just Walk Away
But what if the girl just doesn’t seem interested?
That’s when good flirting advice tells you to cut your
losses. There will be other chances to learn to meet
and attract women, so regard this as a learning experience.
If you feel you were too pushy or made a mistake, then
you’ll do better next time. The one thing you should
never do is treat this girl like she’s done you a great
wrong. Be good-natured about the situation.
Your maturity now may already be attracting another
girl who you haven’t even noticed yet.
About the Author:
Jason Reed is an author of flirting, dating, romance, relationships and gift articles including
Successful Online Dating,
Dating Tips For Men,
Shy Men,
Anniversary Wishes,
Friendship Rings,
Search For People.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.
More Flirting Tips....
What are some women how to flirt tips?
Ah, but how women can flirt and
do it so innocently. If you are a woman and want to
learn how to flirt you have to take some cues from men.
The first is the eye contact. Make direct eye contact
with your flirting recipient.
Then look away when you have
caught their attention. Running your fingers through
your hair, or playing with your hair gives the person
the impression that you are interested in them. The
next step is your body language. Most women naturally
want to cross their legs. If you cross your legs away
from your flirting partner then you seem closed off.
If you turn your body slightly
in and lean in a little, this tells your interest that
you are definitely into them and are open for more communication.
Another flirtation sign is licking your lips. You may
do this subconsciously because you are thinking about
kissing that person.
It is a sign and one you need
to master first at home otherwise you are going to give
the appearance that you are just trying to get something
off your lips.
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