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Family Violence Breeds Violent Offenders

By Janine Jensenoris

The National Institute of Justice found that family violence often creates a lifelong pattern of similar violence. In 2001, NIJ reported: "General delinquency research shows that childhood abuse (physical and sexual) is often associated with delinquency and that the early onset of maltreatment may increase the variety, seriousness and duration of problems.

It is also widely suggested that violence begets violence; that today’s abused children will become tomorrow’s violent offenders." To stop the cycle, adults must seek help for themselves and their young impressionable ones.

Family Violence Against Children

Each year, more than 1,460 children die of neglect or child abuse in America. Nearly half of these murders occur before the child is one year old and 75% occur before age four. The most common type of harm is neglect, which accounts for nearly half of the deaths. The second most common type is multiple maltreatments, which includes hitting, shaking or intentionally hurting the child again and again over time.

As a result of these abuses, many children grow up to become aggressors themselves. For instance, 37% of female inmates and 14% of male inmates were victims of childhood violence. Abused children are also 3.8 times more likely to become alcohol or substance abusers and a third of the victims go on to hurt their own children.

Elderly Relatives Abused And Murdered

Further adding to family violence, the FBI found that 444 elderly relatives were the victims of murder between 1996 and 2001. An additional 20,955 elderly relatives were assaulted but survived.

A study conducted in New Zealand found that 70% of the victims were female, and that 59% of the cases were psychological abuse, 42% were material/financial abuse, 12% of cases were physical and 2% were sexual. Family members were the primary abusers, with sons or daughters committing the crimes 40% of the time. Abuse of the elderly can create deep-seated depression and could cause a number of adverse health effects.

Violence Begets Violence

The effects of child victimization are rather serious. A 2001 National Institute of Justice study found that "being abused or neglected as a child increased the likelihood of arrest as a juvenile by 59 percent, as an adult by 28 percent, and for a violent crime by 30 percent."

They also found that children who grew up in homes with family violence tended to become violent themselves, often abusing their own children. Many of the victims also suffered from obstacles like attention deficit disorder, substance abuse, mental health problems, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, lack of social skills and difficulty forming normal relationships.

However, with proper counseling and therapy to review their options, these children can still lead a normal life, if their needs are taken care of immediately following separation.

About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is an author of articles on relationships, social skills, dating and flirting including Lonely People, Adult Personals, First Date Conversation Starters, Social Skills Lessons, Difficult People, Anger Management, Flirting Tips For Men, Real Friends, Adult Party Favors, Conversation Starters.
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