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Dream Meanings Reinforcing Existing Attitudes

By Janine Jensenoris

Can dreams come true? Some spiritualists believe that our nighttime visions are prophecies of the future. Neurologists have posited that our dream time experiences are simply byproducts of our information sorting processes that occur during sleep. Psychoanalysts say that dreams reveal our innermost desires and wishes.

After researching more than 1,000 college student dreamers from South Korea, India and the United States, psychologists from Carnegie Mellon University and Harvard believe that dream meanings may have something to do with our established set of beliefs and stereotypes.

In dream research and studying the meanings of dreams, psychologists Carey K. Morewedge and Michael I. Norton asked college students in South Korea, India and the U.S. how much significance they attached to dreams.

Looking For Hidden Underlying Conclusions

Psychologists wanted to know: Do they think dreams are random impulses, mechanized information sorting, or the revealing of unconscious emotions? The vast majority of students fell into the Freudian school of thought, surmising that there are hidden underlying conclusions from dreams.

Furthermore, they felt sometimes dreams come true and that they should heed any warnings. For instance, the students were more likely to review their options and cancel their plane trip if they had a dream about the flight crashing the night before the trip, rather than if there was an actual plane crash on their route or if the terrorist threat level had gone up a notch.

Negative Dreams About People You Dislike

Interestingly enough, researchers found that people ascribed greater significance to dream meanings that coincided with their preconceived notions. For instance, they saw negative dreams about people they disliked as being very significant. Similarly, they gave more weight to positive dreams about friends.

Individuals rated a dream about a friend protecting him/her from attackers higher in meaning than a dream about that same friend kissing one’s romantic partner. In the world of dreams, they were willing to overlook the dreams that contradicted their conscious beliefs, but they believed the dreams that reinforced their attitudes were extremely important.

Dreams Reinforce Existing Attitudes

According to Dr. Morewedge, "The apparently unintended nature of dreams leads people to attribute greater meaning to dreams than to similar thoughts they had while awake."

In other words, dream meanings reinforce our existing attitudes, stereotypes and beliefs -- and by encountering these things while dreaming, we’re given signs that we were correct in our thinking. "When friends and loved ones have disturbing dreams, one may need to do more than say, ‘It was just a dream,’" advises Dr. Morewedge.

"It may also be a good idea not to tell people about their undesirable behavior in your dreams, as they may infer that your dreams reveal your true feelings about them."

About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is an author of articles on dreams, dating, social skills and relationships including Social Skills Lessons, Chat Site, Real Friends, Adult Party Favors, Conversation Starters, Abusive Relationships, Difficult People, Marriage Crisis, Anger Management, Mother Daughter Relationships, Interracial Relationships.
Keep a lookout for more articles coming soon.

More Dreams Facts....

Is it possible for someone to know that they are experiencing dreams and be able to control them?
Yes, it is possible for some people to know that they are dreaming and they do have the ability to dictate how those dreams unfold. This is called lucid dreaming.

It has actually been scientifically verified. People who can lucidly dream are called oneironauts. They have complete control over the characters and even the environment of the dreamscape.


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