Differences Between Men And Women
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Differences Between Men And Women Helps To Keep A Relationship Interesting
By Janine Jensenoris
Differences between men and women are quite evident
in many relationships. Men tend to be more aggressive
and want their woman to be passive. While a woman expects
her man to change over a period of time, to be less
aggressive and show more tenderness.
This is why, whenever there is a problem, men bring
out the flowers and chocolates, and write a poetic love
letter. Men do this, because they know this is what
a woman wants. Women want men to show a little tenderness,
spend more time with her and show he cares.
Men Remembering Their Wedding Anniversary
She wants him to remember important dates like their
wedding anniversary, birthdays and other important occasions
in their lives. He wants her to look as attractive as
she did on the first day they met and for her to keep
flirting with him. She wants him to dress well, especially
when they are around people. He wants her to be as stunning
as ever.
These are some of the many differences between men
and women.
The Ongoing Mysteries Between Men And Women
Over a decade ago, the book, ‘Men are from Mars &
Women are from Venus’ was tremendously popular and with
good reason. Both men and women often seem befuddled
by the behaviors of the opposite gender.
This book was equally attractive to men and women ...
we all want to understand, “Why is he like that?” or
“Why does she always have to do that?” While there may
now be a few enlightened individuals, for the majority
of us, the differences between men and women remain,
for the most part, a mystery that can’t be solved, sort
of like the ultimate Rubic’s cube.
Never Asking For Directions
Men are notorious for never asking directions. They
always know where they are, even when they miss the
turnoff for Manhattan and end up on the turnpike to
Jersey – a somewhat irreversible wrong turn, at least
for a couple of hours. Now, why are they so stubborn
about this issue? Maybe that’s why men love GPS gadgetry!
Men Always Carry Out The Trash And Work On The Car
How about the differences between men and women when
it comes to the distribution of household tasks? Ah
yes, unless your mate is thoroughly immersed in the
21st century, he’s the guy who’s saddled with the dirtier,
messier tasks of life, such as carrying out the trash
and working on cars.
True, these are some of the less attractive aspects
of housekeeping. However, women do get to do the oven
cleaning, bathroom cleaning, pet messes and other ‘light’
cleaning activities.
Men Are Less Fussy About Their Clothes
Fashion awareness is another of the typical differences
between men and women. Men are far more practical and
generally less fussy about their clothing than the average
woman. This is why men so often gloat when you’re packing
for a trip.
They can handily pack all they need in a carry-on,
with room left over. There you are, struggling to jam
that third pair of shoes into some crevice, in between
all the clothes you might need for two weeks. On the
other hand, where do most men find their wardrobe essentials?
In a shopping bag that comes home with the woman. Men
usually hate shopping of any kind.
Men Bearing Sweet Gifts With Flowers
One of the nicest differences between men and women
is that practice of men discerning when flowers and
candy are in order. This strategy may be employed to
make up for a spat or other ‘in-the-doghouse’ situation.
However, sometimes men will come home bearing these
delightful gifts for no reason at all. They know this
gesture melts a woman’s heart.
Now, what about manipulation and mind game-playing?
Ah, here the lines of differences between men and women
tend to blur. Men tend to manipulate women as a short
term solution to a short term goal.
Women Manipulate Men All The Time
For many women, manipulating a man is almost like an
ongoing, even unconscious, ‘hobby’. This is one thing
that drives men crazy, because most of the time, they
don’t even see it coming – probably because they’re
subjected to this game day in and day out. Poor guys!
Manipulation of men by women always includes the ‘meow’
factor. That is, women like to diss other women, sometimes
just for the fun of it, but also to elicit some praise
for themselves. When was the last time you heard a guy
make a deprecating comment on another guy’s shoes? He
doesn’t see the profit in it.
Who Is Neat And Efficient?
As for neatness and efficiency, the differences between
men and women are negligible. Either one spouse is a
neat freak and efficiency expert, while the other is
the opposite, or both contend for the neatness and efficiency
award, coming from different planets, so to speak.
Men who are neat and efficient may have a military
background, taking pride in bouncing that quarter off
the bed. Neat and efficient women are usually the ‘Super
Mom’ type, every paper in its place, sparkling clean
homes and smooth sailing – always.
This brand of neatness and efficiency doesn’t dovetail
well with the neat and efficient man. They’re both looking
for perfection, but of differing manifestations.
Men Forget Important Dates
When it comes to remembering important dates, women
beat the pants off the men. Men forget birthdays and
anniversaries, unless they take the trouble to keep
a calendar to remind them. But, hey, that’s where we
come full circle. A man with a box of candy or a lovely
bouquet of flowers can win the day.
Character And Meeting Expectations
The wider difference may be the character and meeting
expectations. A man may be a sports fanatic, likes to
go to motor sports and boxing. The woman is more into
movies and literature. Her expectations may be that
over a period of time, he may change and stop going
to all those sports and watching ball on tv and spend
more time with her and the family.
Some men like to go to the bar after work, just like
they did before they were married. The woman is expected
to have ready food in the oven to feed a drunken husband.
Night after night at the bar, spending more time with
the boys, than with his family.
Extramarital Affairs Disrupt Relationships
The woman may develop suspicions that he has found
someone else and is spending more time with his new
woman, than with his family. She may decide, for the
sake of the family, it is time to talk things over and
see if she can work out why he is acting this way. Is
he bored with her? Is he looking for a new challenge?
More women are leaving home and looking for a better
solution. Men are surprised when they arrive to an empty
home. No sound of children. No wife. No pet dog. Everything
has been cleaned out while he was camping for the weekend,
with the boys.
This is why we need to accommodate each other and look
out for signs of differences between men and women.
About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is a popular author of dating articles
including Adult
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Relationships, Difficult
People, Anger
Management, Mother
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Relationships.
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