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Dating Secrets For Men And Reading Her Eyes
By Jason Reed
Dating secrets for men include your presentation and
manners on a date. If you are a soft spoken, attentive
listener, dressed to impress and show genuine interest,
then you will be irresistible to women.
Some women may enjoy your company and want to see you
again. While other women find other qualities which
blend with their interests. But most women can not say
no, to a nice guy.
Look At Her Eyes
When on a date, you decide you genuinely like your
date, then you should make every effort to please her.
Your reward will be to see her again for more dates.
Dating is like a courtship ritual, where most of the
conversation is with the eyes.
For example, can you see where she is looking while
she is talking to you? If she is looking at your eyes
and smiling with you, laughing at your jokes, then she
is genuinely interested and the door is open.
Knowing these signals, will help you get ahead with
these dating secrets for men.
Men Bragging About Their Dating Life
While you might think that everyone else on the planet
enjoys a spectacular dating life – no dateless weekends
– and a flurry of women begging for these other men’s
favors and attention, it’s really not true. Don’t believe
everything you hear from other men. They may just be
bragging and trying to cover their own insecurities!
Many men tend to botch their chances with the ladies
through a number of moves, along with a forced persona
– something picked up from a fixation and admiration
of Sean Connery, Mel Gibson, or Johnny Depp. Let’s face
it. Hollywood does not usually parallel reality.
Best Dating Secrets For The Ordinary Man
Here we provide you men with the five best dating secrets
for men, written for the ordinary guy, living in reality.
These dating secrets should boost your dating success
rate exponentially, so listen up.
1. Your first assignment
in our mini-course, ‘Best Dating Secrets for Men’? If
you haven‘t already read, ‘Men are from Mars, Women
are from Venus’, pick up a copy and do so now. You’ll
find gems of truth with respect to the innate emotional
differences between men and women, some of which will
be true epiphanies.
You’ll learn that men and women often respond entirely
differently to the same situation, concept or emotion.
What you might find hilarious, your girl might feel
scandalized, or think you insensitive.
This book is an easy read and provides humorous insights
that will help get you in sync with women’s way of thinking.
With this new found understanding, you’ll be miles ahead
of men who lack this essential information.
Tone Down And Soft-Spoken Man Attracts More Women
2. If you were brought up
in a household of loud boys, or just tend to be that
way, try to refine the loud, boisterous, macho persona.
This persona doesn’t play well with most women. Practice
toning down the volume and replace it with a more soft-spoken
you.
Women usually find the soft-spoken man irresistible
and conversely tend to equate ‘loud’ with ‘pushy’, ‘bossy’
and ‘insensitive’. These are not perceptions you want
to promote!
Practice talking in front of the mirror, or record
your normal conversation. You’ll soon get it down. As
for diction and demeanor, here’s a good place to emulate
some of those slick Hollywood guys mentioned above.
Show Genuine Interest And Do Not Dominate A Conversation
3. Be a good listener. This
is one of the quintessential dating secrets for men.
Try to show genuine interest in what she has to say.
You don’t need to be the center of attention. To women,
there’s hardly a more boring date than one where the
guy holds forth on everything him, even to the point
of cutting the woman off in mid-sentence to continue
his me-fest.
Negative Criticism Is A Definite Turn Off!
4. Don’t indulge in non-constructive
criticism. It’s a definite turn off to a woman. Let’s
say you don’t care for her dress and feel it’s your
duty to point this out. Don’t do it! She obviously went
to a lot of trouble to look nice for your date. This
type of faux paus belongs in the ‘Dating Secrets for
Men – not!’ category.
Always Be True
5. Though it may sound simplistic,
one of the key dating secrets for men is: be genuine.
Don’t express opinions you don’t subscribe to – she’ll
see through the inauthenticity rather quickly and you’ll
be scratched off her date list in a single evening.
Do your reading assignment, review and implement the
other four of our dating secrets for men. You’ll
soon have more dates than you can fit in to your busy
schedule! As the last word, have a good sense of humor.
Women will adore you!
A Genuinely Interested Soft Spoken Man Is Irresistible
Especially if you are genuinely interested, are a soft
spoken, attentive man, dressed to impress and show you
care about what she has to say. If you are ambivalent,
but are giving her a chance to impress you, then you
should also try to impress her.
You may dislike one or two aspects of your date, but
there are other more overwhelming aspects of which you
may find extremely appealing. For example, you may work
in the same field, or like the same movies and music,
and have similar other interests. By sharing your interests
you may look at having more dates.
Go Online Dating
If the opposite is the case and you have nothing in
common, then you can look at closing the date, pay the
bill and go online and search dating sites for better
dates. If you have never been on a dating site, you
can browse through the membership benefits and decide
if you wish to become a member of the site. If you are
happy with the site, and take up membership, you may
browse through the dating profiles and start the process
of finding a new date.
Over time you may realise, it is better to go online
and find a date, then going to a noisy bar and hoping
to find a girl that takes your fancy. When you go online
there may be thousands of profiles of women available
for dates, while at the bar there may 5 or 10 women.
Some may even have their own date with them.
Now you know how to meet success when using dating
secrets for men.
About the Author:
Jason Reed is an author of dating, romance, relationships and gift articles including
Successful Online Dating,
Anniversary Gift Ideas,
Anniversary Presents,
Anniversary Wishes,
Friendship Rings,
Search For People.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this
author on this website in the near future.
More Dating Facts....
What is the whole deal with internet dating?
Many people find that the
internet is a fast way to connect with many people.
It is probably less expensive than going to bars
looking for that special someone. Most websites
allow you to customize your search, thus eliminating
people you think might not be best suited for you.
There are also websites that are based on important
issues such as religion, sexuality or even age and
ethnic groups.
I always thought that finding a date on the internet
or through a personal ad was for someone afraid to get
out. Is this true?It might be true for a small minority
of individuals. Most internet dating users find that
websites give a chance to get to know the person before
committing to that all important first date.
It also allows you the chance to show a different aspect
of yourself. If you are shy it could mean the difference
between an awkward first date between strangers and
a comfortable meeting between two people who already
know something about each other.
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