Dating Older Women Secret Friends Guide
Dating Older Women By Younger Men
By George Stenhouse
Dating older women is a popular trend among younger
men these days. Some of these men like a woman with
experience and knows how to keep a man happy. They may
find older women are not too demanding on their time,
do not waste their time with child-like hangups and
have less suspicions about dating other women.
Older men may find there are less women their age to
take out on dates, if younger men are dating their available
women and this may compound their sense of isolation
if they cannot find a woman their age. They may have
to look for younger women, who are looking to date older
men.
Younger men may find older women are much wiser and
know more about relationships. These women may have
been married and are now divorced, or their husband
died in a traffic accident, so all they are looking
for, is a younger man to provide companionship.
Men Dating Older Women
There’s a new trend afoot in the world of dating. Perhaps
not exactly brand new, but certainly becoming a prevalent
phenomena: men dating older women. Men today seem to
find something intriguing about dating older women.
Similarly, older women find younger men
fascinating.
However, there are two sides to this story. Some men
find that dating older women is more interesting, while
others feel threatened by these ’cougars’.
Yes, that’s the vernacular term attributed to
women who date younger men.
It’s interesting that men have a less complimentary
moniker – they are called ‛boy toys’, guys
who like older women. So let’s take a look and
get a perspective from both men and women.
Older Women Know What Pleases A Man In A Relationship
Men feel that older women are less flighty, more sophisticated
and understand men better than a younger woman. Conversations
with older women are more substantive.
Men also say that older women have shed such bad habits
as nagging, are not as overtly jealous and are just
generally more in touch with what pleases men in a
relationship.
On the minus side, men feel older women tend to carry
‛baggage’, in the form of previous relationships,
children and family ties. Dating older women may also preclude
starting a family. The older woman has been there, done
that.
The Symptoms Of Women With Menopause
Some of these older women may just be looking for a
‛fling’, resulting in the hapless man feeling that he’s
been used. Other men may also complain of the symptoms
of women going through menopause. Health problems which
come upon this older woman may also throw a wrench in
the works of the relationship.
Women also find that dating younger men is a two-sided
coin. While, from the woman’s point of view, younger
men are more exciting and adventurous. Women say they’re
not boring couch potatoes, as so many older men
are.
Celebrities Dating Younger Men
Perhaps the most famous pair are Demi Moore and Ashton
Kutcher. She may be old enough to be his mother and
he’s young enough to be a sibling to her kids. I know,
slap my hand for pointing this out, but it does highlight
one of the perspectives on this dating phenomena.
On the other hand, women also note that too many of
these younger men seem to be looking for a free lunch,
or a mother figure. Women with high paying careers often
find that younger men have financial expectations that
have nothing to do with romance. They also say that
one of the down sides of dating younger men is that
they lack maturity.
For example, a younger man may trip himself up with
some old line that their peer use with success with
an ingénue, but don’t pass the laugh test with an older
woman. Younger men, dating older women, are also more
prone to barely disguised whining and childish behavior.
Advantages And Disadvantages
Both men and women seem to eventually conclude that
there are advantages and disadvantages to the disparity
in age. Couples who are roughly of the same age have
problems of their own. Just like every other couple
on the planet.
Personally, it’s difficult for me to see why this reversal
of the normal dating patterns is so popular. The potential
problems of men dating older women seem to be far greater
for both parties. How about you?
Looking To Date Older Woman
You may be thinking about dating older women. You may
be looking for a woman who has experienced the world
and knows how to satisfy a man. A woman who does not
have child like hang ups. Where do you find these older
women?
Do you go to a nightclub and hope to see older women
there? Many clubs may not even allow older women to
enter their club, although they may have over 35 nights,
these are often during the week, when you have to work
the next day.
Another way, is to meet older women at social events.
But this process takes a long time to find someone suitable.
It may take months or even years. There is a quicker
way to find older women for dating.
Finding Older Women On Dating Websites
It may be far easier to find older women available
for dating on dating websites. Many dating websites
now have an area where you can locate older women. You
may want to review and browse though dating profiles
of available women in your local area. You may also
look at placing your own profile on dating websites
and state that you are looking to date older women.
You need to be honest with your profile, do not lie
about your profession and age, as this may lead to major
disappointment when the time comes to meet each other
on a date. Once your profile is placed on a dating website,
you may be contacted with offers from older women and
you can decide which women are most appealing.
Videochatting With Live Webcams
There may be one or two who work in your profession,
so that may be appealing. You can chat online with some
of these women to find out more and see if there more
interesting aspects. The dating website may have facilities
where you can use live webcams and videochat before
you finally meet on a physical date.
There are some of the many ways you can join the popular
trend of dating older women.
About the Author:
George Stenhouse is an author of dating articles including
Online Dating,
Dating Internet Service,
Online Dating Tips,
Online Chat,
Alternative Dating,
Chat Pages,
Dating Chat.
Keep a lookout for more articles coming soon.
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