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Bad Parenting And Signs Of Abuse
By Janine Jensenoris
Bad parenting can be a bit of a misnomer. Good parenting
versus bad parenting can often come down to a matter
of opinion. One set of parents might think that television
is not the same evil that another set might.
There might be difference of opinions on organic foods
as a necessity. Video games, music, movies, toys and
even books come down to a matter of personal choice
depending on the family involved. But there are some
things that are true of bad parenting.
One such behavior is physical abuse. This is a topic
of debate among officials and parenting organizations
as to what classifies true abuse. Whether or not spanking
is considered abuse depends on the means of physical
punishment used, how hard the spanking is administered
and what the reasons are behind it.
Lasting Physical Marks On The Child
The laws in most states consider the line between spanking
and abuse to be one where there are lasting physical
marks left on the child. This does not mean a red behind.
It means deep bruising that damages the tissues.
Abuse can come in many forms. Perhaps the most psychologically
damaging that bad parenting can leave is the emotional
and mental abuse. Bad parenting is something that a
child carries with them for the rest of their lives.
A harsh word or name calling is not easily forgotten
and will greatly influence the interactions the child
has with other people.
Abused Children May Become Bullies
Children being abused, often lash out towards other
children in the form of bullying. It is their way of
equalizing the pain in their lives. Bad parenting can
get worse though. Emotional, mental and physical abuses
are bad but the devastation wrought by sexual abuse
is tremendous.
No child, teenager, or even adult should ever be the
victim of sexual abuse yet it happens daily in all parts
of the world. Parenting help exists for those concerned
that they are practicing bad parenting traits.
Seek Immediate Help From Counselors And Psychologists
There are a number of parenting books available but
often the best course of action is to seek immediate
help from counselors and psychologists, to provide a
review the situation. They have the skills and means
to help reverse the trend of bad parenting.
A license is required to drive an automobile or own
a business yet anyone can have a child. There is something
wrong with this concept. Yes, it is a natural born right
to bear children but is it responsible for anyone to
be able to do so?
The Best Homes May Have The Worst Forms Of Abuse
Even the supposed "good parenting" homes
are often found to be the ones with the most horrible
forms of abuse running rampant and unchecked due to
socioeconomic facades. Far too often, humanity looks
at the exterior of a parent and judges their parenting
abilities from manner of dress or uncombed
appearance.
A home that appears on the outside to be rife with
bad parenting may in fact be one in which the parents
are devoted and loving role-models.
About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is an author of relationships, social skills and dating articles including
Mother Daughter Relationships,
Social Skills Lessons,
Abusive Relationships,
Difficult People,
Marriage Crisis,
Anger Management,
Interracial Relationships,
Chat Site,
Real Friends,
Adult Party Favors,
Conversation Starters.
Keep a lookout for more articles coming soon.
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